A Time for Thankfulness

We have all been through a lot this year, and we all have a lot for which to be thankful.

Many people have suffered losses . . .

• The loss of a loved one.
• The loss of a job.
• The loss of a sense of security.

When this happens, it is easy — even natural — to feel angry.

Several years ago, my husband almost died. He continues to have serious health problems to this day.

In spite of my relationship with God, I spent a couple of years feeling angry and hurt that God allowed this to happen in my life. I felt singled out, and wondered why God didn't love me enough to provide me with a "normal" life.

It took a friend's loss of her 18-year old son to make me realize just how wrong I had been. I wasn't being "singled out," and there is no such thing as a "normal" life.

God gives us all challenges. For some, it is the loss of a loved one. For others, it is a health problem or financial difficulties.

I came to the realization that it is not the challenges we face, but how we live IN SPITE OF the challenges that are thrown in our path, that defines who we are.

Once I understood this, I was able to let go of my anger and treasure each day God gives me with my husband.

My prayers are with those families who have lost loved ones this year. And, I send my heart-felt thanks to the brave men and women who are risking their lives to protect me and my family.

I pray that God gives you that "peace that surpasses all understanding," and that you know He is with you and loves you.